Harmonize Your Male and Female Elements


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Sphalerite helps to harmonize the male and female elements of your disposition.

This means that when there is an overabundance of either female or male attributes, this stone will cause whichever is too low to be increased.

This helps to create an end result of a harmonious and balanced personality. This crystal has quite a few very helpful properties, and in particular the way it helps to prevent nervous exhaustion and fatigue is quite impressive.

How Will Sphalerite Help You?

If you have been meditating regularly with any of the high crystal energy stones and experience symptoms of being dizzy or disoriented, this stone will help to ground you and energize you.

When you use high vibration crystals, Sphalerite is extremely helpful to create grounding, so use it if you experience any of the symptoms from being ungrounded.

It is understandable that many people are attracted to the idea of working with high vibration stones, and the idea of developing your psychic abilities is very attractive.

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But if you work with high crystal energy stones too much you can actually become sick.

Common symptoms of being ungrounded include feeling spacey, light headed and/or dizzy and feeling excessively drained or fatigued. 

Sphalerite has an excellent grounding action.  It works through both the base or root chakra and earth star chakra to fully ground your energy.

Many of you may have been concentrating on your spirituality by using high vibration stones. This can have a detrimental effect on the body, and the nervous system. 

It is valuable to use spiritual grounding crystals like this one, to help to ameliorate these problems, as it helps to ground your nervous system.

It is very important to know all of the symptoms of being ungrounded. So if you are not quite sure of what the symptoms, checkout the list on the page about grounding and learn... Are you ungrounded?

Who Should Use It?

It is quite interesting that using this strong grounding stone can also help your own psychic abilities to open up, as it removes blockages that may have been stopping you from allowing your psychic gifts to blossom.


It has a strong action for grounding you at the lower chakras, and it will also work in these areas to boost your stamina, passion for life and overall energy.

It not only helps to bring you back to normal, but also helps your nervous system to handle high vibration energy. So it is beneficial to prevent burnout, to use it along with high crystal energy stones.

Its action at the solar plexus or power chakra, helps to aid manifestation as well as boosting will power. This wonderful crystal also helps to harmonize the male and female aspects of the personality.

This crystal is a good healing stone, as it helps to support the immune system and can assist you to recover more quickly from infections. It is also helpful to heal issues in the eyes, and the nervous system.

It is an excellent stone for athletes to use, as it helps you to get back to normal more quickly after heavy exercise, as it helps to replenish the oxygen in the blood.

It vibrates within the sacral chakra which is the area of the body that helps to enhance your creativity, so it is  beneficial stone to enhance your creativity.

"We cannot teach people anything, we can only help them to discover it for themselves." Galileo.

Combining It With Other Stones

To assist its action to enhance your creativity, and to stimulate the sacral or navel chakra in general, you may choose to combine it with any of the stones that have a strong action within this area of the body.

There are quite a few more listed in the article on the navel chakra.

Stones such as Vanadinite, Orange Calcite, Zincite and Carnelian stones are powerful combined with this stone to stimulate creativity, procreativity, sexual issues and to aid you to feel a greater enjoyment of life generally.

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Zincite is closely related to Sphalerite, and you can combine any color of Zincite with this stone.

Zincite can be very intense, and it may energize the higher chakras, before bringing the energy down to the base or root chakra.

This combination is helpful to ground your desires into reality, as it may aid you to bring the energy down into the earth, helping to make your desires become reality. 

Note that this combination should only be used for short periods as some people find it over stimulates the nervous system.

To boost its spiritual grounding abilities, you may combine it with Black Tourmaline, Black Obsidian, Smoky Quartz or Black Andradite Garnet.

To boost your powers of discernment, and so that you can readily know if others are being truthful when they speak to you, use it with Blue Sapphire, Tigers Eye,  Heliodor or Libyan Desert Glass aka Libyan Gold Tektite.

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To aid you to balance your male-female energies you may like to combine it with other crystals that have similar attributes, such as Iolite, Lapis Lazuli, Amesite, Turquoise, Nephrite Jade, Aventurine, Marcasite, Hematite Crystals, Amazonite, Magnetite, Ascension Stones, Golden Yellow Labradorite and Shaman Stones.

Want to read more about this strong grounding stone, then checkout Sphalerite Part 1.


When you buy a new stone or crystal, it is advantageous to use it on its own first. Once you are fully aware of its energy, you may choose to combine it with other stones.

Combine stones for short periods to begin with, as individuals may react differently. Knowing how you can combine various stones may be helpful, as this allows you to get the most from your crystals, and may help you to solve specific problems in your life.

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